When I first started the blog I thought that I should only post about "major events/outtings" but after I had Olivia that changed and I began posting constantly about all of the cute things she does and says. And now after much thought I've decided that I want to post more about my thoughts, feelings, wishes and dreams. Just because I want to remember them. Remember everything that was going on in my life at that particular time.
Of course the majority of my posts will still be about Olivia.
Because she's our everything and it really doesn't get much cuter than her.
I've heard some people say that they don't like reading blogs where the writer makes it appear as though they have the "perfect" life.
I can definitely understand that but at the same time I think that there are a lot of things in our lives that should be private and that shouldn't be shared with the world.
I mean if you have a public blog literally anyone can read it.
And I honestly don't want just random people to know about every single stupid arguement Michael and I get in to, or how frustrated I get sometimes with never having any time to myself because I spend the entire day entertaining and chasing around my 2 year old.
And I definitely don't want everyone to know about every trial we've been through or are going through.
I guess I'm just more of a private person.
But let me just make it known that I am far from perfect, our little family has problems we are working through just like everyone else and there will be times that I may share some of those things.
We'll just have to see.
I really like to focus on all the positive things going on in our family because they are the things I want to remember.
My blog isn't "fake", we are a very happy family most of the time:)
And I've just chosen to focus on those happy times
My blog isn't "fake", we are a very happy family most of the time:)
And I've just chosen to focus on those happy times
Anyway enough ranting about my blog.
I'm just grateful that I have this blog to record all my most precious memories.
I'm sure our family will cherish it forever.
*Oh on a side note I do really appreciate some of those honest blogs. The blogs where people open up about their difficult trials. I feel like some of them are so inspired and are forsure helping others in similar situations. I love reading them. And who knows maybe one day I will be inspired to share some of the challenges we face but for now I hope that whoever reads this blog enjoys it for what it is.
I agree with you. There are a lot of things I face everyday that are just as tough as infertility, but I don't feel like I should share them with the world, you know? I share and talk about inferiltity because I feel inspiried to do so and feel like it will help other people, but some things just aren't meant to be put online! :)
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